Asking for help, when and how, is not always easy. Believe me, I know I was once there. I didn’t understand or know much about counselling/psychology at first. When I was 12 years old, I gave my life to Jesus. Little did I know, that was where my struggles would begin. From there on, until early university, I started having these obsessive thoughts that I was not a good person and a bad Christian. I had extremely low self-confidence and believed I didn’t deserve anything good. I doubted God’s love for me and struggled with depressive feelings and anxiety for almost 8 years without knowing what was wrong. I believed that was just who I was: miserable and a freak. What I learned was, that there was something called psychology/counselling that can help me. Counselling taught me that there is no such thing as being crazy and that I’m allowed to be heard. God has a plan for you, and has already created the solution within you. That is what counselling is: to realize feeling and struggling is not a weakness.